| Does he know how to Treat/love you? Ladies if you want to know if a guy knows how to treat a lady. pay close attention to his relationship with the women in his life. Women such as his: mother, sister(s), aunt(s), grandmother(s) etc. listen to the conversations they have and the manner in which they are spoken. if he puts them down, disrespects them, mistreats them he will do the same to you. If the relationships are weak or strained you two will have problems. If he can't treat them right how will he be capable of treating you like a queen? Seriously be wise. If he curses at them constantly without apology or any remorse or conviction, abuses them he will do the same to you. Yes I am speaking from experience (mama never lied I should have listened and paid attention.) We can't make men change, only they and God can do that. Be careful before getting too emotionally attached to a guy before you know his maturity level, his character, and how he interacts with the women in his life. If he does not protect them and provide for them the best he can he won't do it for you. His relationship with God and the women in his life are the foundation of his relationship with women he interacts with or date. It is the foundation of how he thinks women should be treated. If he has bad relationships with the women in his life don't waste your time. Move on. don't get into an unhealthy relationship, avoid unnecessary heartache and pain. Pray Pray. Know your worth =priceless, you are a queen and deserve to be treated as such. You deserve a man to treat you with the utmost respect. Be aware of how he speaks to and treats the women in his life before you call him your '"man", boo etc. Be wise and love yourself enough to be mindful of who you date and marry. One God One love- Lady Virtue |
Monday, December 21, 2009
Does he know how to treat/love you?
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